Steven Mesler Steven Mesler

Beyond Platitudes: How True Goals Bring Real Satisfaction and Success to Ambition

We’re told to aim high, dream big. We set ambitious goals—get the promotion, sell the company, win the medal. But when the thrill fades, we often ask, why doesn’t this feel as good as I thought it would?

Maybe it’s because the real target isn’t the achievement itself; it’s the feeling we think it will give us: pride, respect, confidence, or a little more peace. That’s the true goal.

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Steven Mesler Steven Mesler

Relevance Realization, Goals, and Slapping Glutes

What’s the goal, and what matters most in achieving it? Whether you're leading a business or pushing a bobsled, these two questions are crucial for peak performance. But how do we know what to prioritize?

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Steven Mesler Steven Mesler

Intentionality, our decision-journeys, and Tua Tagovailoa

Sometimes bad things happen. It’s part of life. Sometimes we see it coming, sometimes we don’t, but we still choose to move forward, despite the risks. It could be a major event like a car accident or the gradual loss of control over our time. Maybe it's a career change with its own risks and rewards. Whatever it is, tomorrow still arrives and we have decisions to make.

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Steven Mesler Steven Mesler

RFN - Less stress, more productivity

If you’ve ever laid awake in bed at night worrying about something, questioning a decision you made, or re-running a frustrating conversation you had with somebody - you have an idea of what I’m talking about. 

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Steven Mesler Steven Mesler

What if it’s not about enjoying the journey?

I'm someone who loves the journey. When I look back on the glorious decade I was fortunate enough to spend sliding down mountains, wearing tights, competing for my country... What I remember the most aren't the days that we raised the flag over German soil, our biggest rivals, but rather the days in the gym in the summertime, the endless discussions around shin angles and hip flexion, and the wintertime truck drives on the Autobahn.

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